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Leadership is a choice to look after those around you. It's about accountability, taking responsibility for both successes and failures. True leaders help others, understanding that collaboration is essential in a complex world. Asking for and accepting help is a crucial skill for growth and building supportive relationships.
A good leader learns to hold their opinions until everyone else has spoken. This allows others to feel heard and contribute, and provides the leader with the benefit of diverse perspectives before making a decision. The key is to listen actively, ask clarifying questions, and understand the motivations behind others' opinions.
As one gains success and position, people will treat them better, but these perks are for the position, not the individual. Leaders should always remember their humility, recognizing that they 'deserve a Styrofoam cup.' This reminder helps maintain gratitude and understand that privileges come with the role, not personal superiority.
Leaders have followers because they articulate a clear vision of a world that does not yet exist. By consistently sharing this purpose, they inspire others who believe in the same vision to join them and contribute. When people feel safe and valued by their leaders, they respond with dedication and personal sacrifice to advance the shared goal.
Working hard for something you don't care about is stress; working hard for something you love is passion. Everyone possesses passion, and leaders should create environments where people can find passion in their work. This involves providing opportunities to contribute, make mistakes, and grow, fostering a sense of purpose and love for what they do.