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The homily begins by asking what one desires from God and life, cautioning that with every gain there is often a loss. It introduces the paradox that true receiving comes from being willing to lose, to offer, and to sacrifice, emphasizing that God's ways are often contrary to human understanding.
Fr. Gatus explains that while we often hear 'family is everything,' it's more accurate to say 'family is one thing.' He highlights that blood ties do not guarantee loyalty or genuine affection, and sometimes family members can inflict pain or be unsupportive, especially when material possessions or inheritance are involved.
This section delves into the reality that not all who accompany us have our best interests at heart. Some may only be present for benefit, others may secretly envy us or speak ill behind our backs. He warns against trusting blindly and reminds that not all who applaud us are truly happy for our success.
The central message is that unlike fallible humans, God remains constant. God will not change, betray, abandon, or stop loving us. If people disappoint, God is always reliable and present. He asserts that when all else fades, God is all we truly need, and that an abundant life does not hinge on having 'more' but on having God as the central focus.
Fr. Gatus elaborates on the saying 'Man awards but God rewards,' illustrating how human appreciation is often limited or absent. He contrasts this with God's nature, who never forgets a good deed, no matter how small. He shares biblical examples and a story about a boy and a glass of milk to show that God returns blessings abundantly, often beyond expectation, fulfilling even mundane acts of kindness.
The homily concludes with an appeal to support those who serve God, particularly catechists and church workers, who often face personal struggles despite their dedication. He emphasizes that assisting them is another way of serving God and that such acts will be greatly rewarded.