The Courtship Is Initiated By Men

Coach Corey Wayne introduces the topic that courtship is initiated by men, emphasizing that men should be clear about their romantic intentions and not hide their attraction. It's the man's role to initiate and communicate his intentions. Once a woman feels safe and comfortable, she will naturally pursue him.

The process of courtship is compared to rolling a snowball down a hill. The man starts it, like rolling a small snowball, and through his actions and character, he makes the woman feel safe. Once initiated, she will take over, doing most of the calling, texting, and pursuing. For most women, attraction often leads to intimacy by the second or third date, after which the woman's pursuit intensifies. This dynamic feels natural and effortless when men and women align with their natural communication styles.

A man who initially doubted Coach Wayne's advice shares his success story. After being rejected, he decided to focus on self-improvement: losing 80 lbs, getting a better job, and upgrading his wardrobe. This transformation made him feel better, look better, and project a more confident vibe.

The man encountered an attractive woman working at a bar. Instead of buying shots and seeking her approval like other men, he directly expressed his interest by saying, "That sounds tempting, I would rather buy you dinner." This directness surprised the woman, who was unaccustomed to such straightforward masculinity.

When the woman seemed hesitant, the man made a humorous comment and then left, inviting her to find him if interested. This demonstrated that he was a man of purpose, not desperate for her attention. His 'take it or leave it' attitude, combined with his displayed confidence, made her actively pursue him an hour later, leading to an immediate intimate encounter. This illustrates how communicating interest, then backing off, allows the woman to chase, knowing what she wants.

A woman who discovered Coach Wayne's videos asks for clarification on who should pursue in initial contact. She always believed the man should pursue. Coach Wayne confirms that the man initiates the courtship by clearly stating his interest. If her response is unenthusiastic, he should back off. Once the woman's attraction grows and she feels comfortable, she will naturally start reaching out, texting, and calling.

Coach Wayne explains that his teachings are based on understanding natural human behavior. Women are more attracted to men whose feelings are somewhat unclear, leading them to engage and try to understand. He highlights the difference in communication styles: women tend to talk more, men less. When men act in alignment with their natural masculine essence (direct, decisive, creating opportunities for intimacy), women naturally follow their instinctive desire to bond and connect. He refers to this as teaching human behavior and emphasizes that denying these natural inclinations can hinder relationship success.