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The guest, born in a religious Latin American village, recounts his upbringing in a devout Catholic family, which led him to aspire to the priesthood. He entered a minor seminary at 13, seeking refuge from family pressure and suppressing his emerging same-sex attractions, fearing societal and familial rejection.
He describes the seminary’s strict daily routine, designed to suppress sexual thoughts through exhaustion. He explains the rigorous academic and spiritual formation, and the unspoken rule that being openly gay would lead to immediate expulsion, due to canon law. He confesses to feeling guilt and even self-harming (flagellation) due to his forbidden attractions.
The guest shares his emotional experience of falling in love with another seminarian. Their clandestine relationship was discovered, leading to the other seminarian's expulsion and his own transfer to Rome to continue his studies, a move intended to prevent scandal and 'save' his vocation.
While in Rome, he studied theology, demonology, and exorcism. He reflects on his growing disillusionment with the Church's political nature, its cover-ups of scandals (like Maciel Macial), and the differing interpretations of the Bible regarding homosexuality. He highlights the Church's power dynamics and its internal judicial system that often shields clergy from secular law.
Despite his rationalistic views, he pursued exorcism studies. He recounts a harrowing personal experience during an exorcism session where a possessed girl revealed a deeply personal childhood secret, profoundly challenging his skepticism and forcing him to reconcile reason with faith.
His departure from the seminary was a mix of personal choice and institutional pressure after he refused a mission assignment due to a new romantic interest. He describes the immense difficulty of transitioning to secular life with no clear path, and maintaining friendships with priests who confide in him about their own struggles within the Church.