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The first strategy is to invite everyone to events or opportunities, regardless of whether they will say yes. The act of inviting makes people feel valued and appreciated, even if they decline. The speaker shares an example of inviting everyone to a Polar Plunge, highlighting that even those who said no appreciated the gesture.
Gifts are an effective networking tool. The speaker explains how he sends gifts to podcast hosts as a thank you, flipping the typical dynamic. The gift doesn't need to be expensive; the thought and gesture, especially when unexpected, are what make the most significant impact.
Networking is about who knows you, not just who you know. Dedicate three minutes each day to connecting with people. This could involve a quick text, DM, or handwritten note to plant seeds for future relationships. An example given is texting Coach K of Duke, which created a deeper connection.
Trust is foundational to networking. Always follow through on your commitments, whether it's sending a thank-you note after a meeting or calling someone back when promised. Your reputation for reliability builds trust and strengthens your network.
Connect with people during significant moments in their lives, especially challenging ones, when they least expect it. The speaker shares a personal story of a friend who remembered the anniversary of his father's death, leaving a lasting impression. Keeping track of important dates for contacts can create incredibly strong bonds.
Being physically present and showing up for people is a powerful, underrated networking skill. People conduct business with those they see and trust. An example is given of a friend showing up personally during a family tragedy, cementing their relationship. Showing up, especially during difficult times, leaves a lasting positive impression.
Staying top of mind with your network is crucial. Regularly send relevant information, articles, or thoughtful messages without expecting anything in return. Additionally, actively put yourself in situations where you can meet new people, such as events, coffee shops, or even casual settings. Be proactive, curious, and friendly to make memorable connections.