How To Attract A Girl That Is With A Group

The speaker introduces the topic of approaching women in groups, highlighting that the primary reasons men avoid this scenario are fear and the perception that hot girls are usually not alone. He emphasizes the potential to meet significantly more women by learning to approach them in groups.

The speaker explains that opening a conversation with a group is easier than approaching a girl alone because you don't need 100% approval from everyone; only a fraction is enough to get your foot in the door. He advises using the same openers you'd use on an individual, but making them collective.

It's critical to engage the entire group, not just the girl you're interested in. The speaker shares a game he plays with students to teach them how to recognize and respond to disengagement in a group. He also advises deciding whether to engage the group first and then target the girl, or vice versa; the key is to do both within the first 30 seconds.

For larger groups, it may be easier to focus on the girl you're interested in. When a girl is with a guy, don't assume they're a couple. Treat the guy cordially, like 'an ugly girl,' unless he's clearly a competitor.

After starting the conversation, avoid simply having a general conversation with the whole group, which prevents intimacy with your target. Differentiate yourself by teasing the girl you're into, use 'non-platonic words' with the target.

Keep the other friends occupied and involved to some extent. Involve the friends in the flirting or qualification process so they feel invested. The speaker shares instances from the video's interaction, such as talking to the guy more than the girl and qualifying her through him. By getting him involved in the conversation, it made the guy like him more.

The speaker discusses whether to get contact information or try and take the girl home that night. He introduces 'isolation,' whether the girl and her friends are willing to separate. Isolation is more difficult with groups of two, but there are solutions like wingmen or moving to a more social environment.

Despite technical details, the biggest takeaway is to simply approach and engage. Approaching groups opens up many opportunities. The most important thing is to be social and engage the group, and the rewards will be substantial.