Bodo Folk Beliefs and Superstitions Related to Marriage

Among the Bodos, marriage is a vital institution with many traditional customs governing bride selection. Certain behaviors exhibited by a potential bride are considered auspicious. For instance, if a bride is seen drying or husking paddy, it is believed she will bring fortune to her new family. If she is observed cleaning the courtyard, sweeping, or combing her hair, it suggests she will have a long life. Furthermore, if the bride enters the main house putting her left foot first, it signifies she will be good-natured and loyal to her family members.

Conversely, there are several bad omens associated with the bride selection process. Seeing a mongoose cross the road from right to left, a snake crossing from left to right, or encountering a dead body on the way are all considered bad signs. The sound of thunder during selection is believed to indicate an unfavorable outcome for the mission. Also, if a member of the selection party sees someone cutting bamboo or working with a spade, it is feared that either the husband or wife may die shortly after the marriage ceremony.

The months of Saitra and Pous are considered highly inauspicious for marriage among the Bodos. Marriages held during these months are believed to bring misfortune to the married couple. Additionally, widows and barren women are not permitted to take a leading role in marriage ceremonies, as they are seen as unfortunate beings.