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Kilbourne states that while the US lacks proper sex education in schools, children are heavily influenced by the 'sex education' provided by advertising and popular culture. She shows highly graphic ads that trivialize sex, making it merely a tool to sell products. The increasing availability and acceptance of pornography have led to its language and imagery becoming mainstream, encouraging girls to present themselves as sexual objects, leading to lower self-esteem and increased vulnerability to eating disorders and depression.
The objectification of women in advertising inevitably leads to increased violence, as ads normalize and trivialize battering, sexual assault, and even murder. Kilbourne emphasizes that turning a human being into an 'object' is the first step towards justifying violence against them. Despite the worsening situation, she expresses hope due to the rise of media literacy in schools, political activism, and young activists who successfully challenge the industry, demonstrating the power of an aware and active public.
Jean Kilbourne began analyzing the image of women in advertising in the late 1960s, creating a slide presentation and later a film series titled 'Killing Us Softly.' Her personal experiences, including a brief stint as a model, exposed her to the objectifying nature of the industry and sparked her lifelong interest in the power of beauty and images. She notes that while society has progressed in some ways, the portrayal of women in advertising has worsened over her 40 years of observation.
Kilbourne argues that the pressure on women to be young, thin, and beautiful is more intense than ever due to advanced image manipulation tools like Photoshop. She illustrates how Photoshop creates unattainable ideals, transforming women's appearances to an impossible degree, and contrasts this with the more 'human' portrayal of men in ads. This constant exposure to perfected images deeply affects women's and girls' self-esteem, leading to feelings of inadequacy.
The speaker highlights how women's bodies are often literally 'dismembered' and insulted in advertising, with examples like an ad critiquing various breast types directed at young girls. She discusses the alarming trend of sexualizing young girls in advertising, with products like padded bras for 7-year-olds and images of children in sexually suggestive poses, which normalizes dangerous attitudes in a society grappling with child sexual abuse. Boys are also sexualized, albeit differently, being encouraged to view girls as objects and to be sexually precocious.