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Karma Tenpa explains the origin and meaning of his monastic name, 'Karma Tenpa Rabye', which translates to 'virtuous activity in upholding the teachings'. He clarifies that 'taking refuge' in Buddhism is a commitment to oneself and the teachings (Dharma), finding inner support and ultimately discovering one's authentic self, not blind obedience to a master or dogma. It is a process of internalizing the teachings and letting go of what is not inherent to one’s true nature.
Karma Tenpa recounts his personal journey to Buddhism, stemming from a feeling of 'spiritual orphanhood' despite conventional success in Buenos Aires. He describes a pervasive sense of dissatisfaction that led him to explore Eastern philosophies. Upon encountering Buddhism, he was particularly drawn to the concept of compassion, which he felt was explicitly present and offered a path to addressing his deep-seated yearning. This search intensified during a period of crisis when he moved to Madrid.
Karma Tenpa elaborates on how compassion is cultivated through daily practice and repeated actions. He emphasizes that compassion is a universal human impulse, not exclusive to Buddhism, and involves both recognizing one's own suffering and the suffering of others. He highlights the importance of training one's perception and heart to be sensitive to what is happening, both good and bad, without being overwhelmed. Simple daily acts like wishing well to those around you, or discreetly offering your presence to someone in need, are ways to activate this compassionate sensibility. He stresses the need for self-care to avoid burnout, illustrating it with the metaphor of knowing when to withdraw and recharge.
Karma Tenpa discusses the monastic vows, particularly celibacy, emphasizing that it is a conscious renunciation driven by a higher spiritual aspiration, not a condemnation of sexuality. He explains it as a way to free up emotional and material time for greater spiritual work, emphasizing that motivation is key to avoid repression. He relates this to the profound sense of 'completeness' he feels in his life, having loved and been loved, suggesting that this spiritual path has brought him to a deeper understanding of love. He acknowledges the 'toll' he pays by not having a conventional family life but reiterates his comfort and certainty in his chosen path.
One constant element in Karma Tenpa's life is humor, which he finds to be a therapeutic and liberating tool. He shares his admiration for humorists like Pepín Tre and Javier Cansado, appreciating their sharp wit and ability to combine philosophy with humor. He also discusses the integration of modern technology, like his Apple Watch, into his monastic life. He explains that these tools are not about luxury but serve practical purposes for health, safety, and efficient communication, all while maintaining a mindful and intentional approach to their use. He sees technology as a means to stay connected and productive in service to others.
Karma Tenpa reflects on his experience of accompanying people in their final days, stating that it has taught him that 'love is the greatest context where everything can coexist.' He sees death as an integral part of life, a process of living, and emphasizes that both the dying and those who accompany them are 'dying' as they are living. He highlights the importance of human connection and support during this process, from family to healthcare workers and volunteers. He also discusses the nuances of regret versus reconciliation, preferring the latter as a more empowering approach to processing one's past. For him, the question is not what comes after death, but what life is lived before it, ultimately concluding that 'love' is the enduring element beyond life.