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Family ties are categorized into two types: blood ties, which are divinely ordained and cannot be broken, and contractual ties (marriage), which can be dissolved under proper Islamic guidelines. Even in divorce, Islam provides rules to ensure that blood relationships, especially those involving children, remain intact. The speaker criticizes practices like parental alienation, where children are used as emotional weapons, leading to deep psychological harm and breaking blood ties, which Allah strictly forbids.
Those who cut family ties are cursed by Allah, made deaf and blind to the truth, and their hearts are locked. Even after clear guidance, Satan makes their principles loose and gives them long, deceptive dreams of future revenge or personal gain. This leads to a complete dominance by Satan over their thoughts and emotions, making them unable to receive guidance from the Quran. These individuals, despite outward displays of religiosity, prioritize their anger and ego over Allah's pleasure, seeking validation from those who oppose divine guidance.
These individuals often present a public facade of kindness while being cruel behind closed doors. Allah questions whether they truly believe their internal hatred and deceit will remain hidden. Allah reveals that He could expose them immediately but refrains, instead allowing them to be recognized by subtle signs: their facial expressions and outwardly dramatic, twisted words. This situation is presented as a test for true believers, who are urged not to lose hope or surrender, as Allah is with them and will not waste their deeds, even against those who operate without rules.
Shortly after the Muslims migrated to Medina, they were refugees, economically struggling, and lacked military experience. When the instruction came to prepare for battle against the powerful Makkan, some new Muslims in Medina became nervous. They questioned why they were agitating the Makkans, stating that Islam was a religion of peace and tolerance, not war. They even argued that there was no Quranic verse explicitly commanding them to fight. This hesitation stemmed from a misunderstanding of their role and the divine command.
When a decisive surah commanding battle came down, those with `sickness in their hearts` displayed fear. Allah describes their pale faces, a reflection of their inner turmoil. This 'sickness' wasn't about disbelieving in the Prophet, but a deeper problem of insincerity with Allah. The Quran exposes a hidden form of disbelief (kufur) masked by outward expressions of faith. Allah emphasizes that the true issues lie within the heart, affecting one's relationship with the Divine.
The speaker reveals that the core objective of Islam in this world, even in the context of battle, is to maintain family ties. Allah states that if the believers turn away from battle, they will spread corruption and cut family ties. The root of many societal problems, such as alcoholism, crime, depression, and self-harm, often traces back to broken family relationships. The Quran's emphasis on family law and regulations further highlights its critical importance, making it a central theme even in stories like Surah Yusuf.