How to Sit Like a Gentleman

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Summary

Etiquette consultant Dana Jean Antonelli, with the help of her husband Brian, demonstrates five ways for gentlemen to sit properly and comfortably, covering different scenarios from formal to casual.

Highlights

Introduction and Initial Steps for Sitting
00:00:10

Dana Jean Antonelli introduces herself as an etiquette consultant and welcomes viewers. She introduces her husband Brian, who will help demonstrate how to sit like a gentleman. Before sitting, gentlemen wearing a suit or suit jacket should unbutton it, and slightly hike up their pants to prevent stretching.

Sitting Position 1: Knees Together
00:01:10

The first position involves keeping knees together, hands resting on the lap, and maintaining a straight posture with a straight spine, chest out (but not overly so), and shoulders back. Brian finds this position uncomfortable.

Sitting Position 2: Knees Apart
00:01:39

The second position allows knees to be two to ten inches apart, or wider if desired, while remaining mindful of surroundings. Hands stay on the lap, and the back is kept straight. Brian finds this position more comfortable than the first.

Sitting Position 3: Ankles Twisted
00:02:04

The third position is more casual, with ankles twisted. Brian finds this position awkward and undesirable.

Sitting Position 4: Feet Together, Knees Apart
00:02:13

The fourth position involves keeping feet together with knees apart, and hands still on the lap, maintaining a straight back. Brian finds it better than positions one and three, but not as good as position two.

Sitting Position 5: Figure Four Cross-Legged
00:02:32

The fifth position is the figure-four cross-legged style. When doing this, ensure the foot is pointed down to avoid showing the sole, which can be disrespectful in some cultures and is generally considered unsightly. Brian states this is his preferred go-to posture.

Conclusion
00:03:00

Dana concludes by summarizing the five easy ways to sit like a gentleman. She encourages viewers to share which position their partner prefers and invites them to subscribe to her channel for more etiquette tips.

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