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An extraordinary life requires not living like an ordinary individual. Criticism often comes from those who fear taking risks. Embracing self-improvement is key, even when society labels it as toxic. True success lies in implementing lessons learned and having discipline.
Hard work alone isn't enough. Combine it with 'unfair advantages': conditions, assets, or circumstances that provide a favorable position. Use jealousy as a compass to identify areas you want to excel in. Accept the inherent unfairness of the world and play the game accordingly.
Focus on what you can control instead of dwelling on the world's unfairness. Stop blaming external factors and own your mistakes. If you embrace a scenario where you have no choice but to succeed then you will because you have removed the option to quit.
Use the MILES framework (Money, Intelligence, Location, Education, Status) to identify your unique strengths. Negative experiences can also become advantages. Note that unfair adavantages are unique to you but can be a double edged sword as well.
Money or the ability to make money is an advantage, especially in capitalist societies. Intelligence comes in various forms. Being in a developed vs developing country brings pros and cons.
Online learning provides a massive unfair advantage by giving access to knowledge and expertise. High-status individuals have better access to resources and opportunities, but they can also face scrutiny and pressure.
Determine the direction you want to go and leverage your unfair advantages to achieve your goals. Everyone has both strengths and weaknesses; how you utilize them is what matters most.
What you are enduring is exactly what you must go through to reach your desired destination. The average person may criticize your ambition, but their life isn't necessarily desirable. No matter what you do, someone will disagree; focus on the opinions of those you respect. Constantly seek feedback, measure progress, and improve based on results.