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Alicja shares her personal journey with ADHD, diagnosed in adulthood just before her 20th birthday. Her aunt's therapist suggested the diagnosis after observing Alicja's behaviors, such as taking on too many responsibilities, procrastination, and mind-wandering during conversations. This led Alicja to extensively research ADHD, realizing many symptoms matched her experiences, including previous misdiagnoses like bipolar disorder. The diagnosis brought immense relief and understanding.
Janek explains that his ADHD diagnosis was made shortly before his 18th birthday, though he had suspicions years earlier due to comments from psychologists at foundations he worked with. He initially dismissed the idea, believing his good academic performance meant he couldn't have ADHD. However, in high school, he recognized symptoms like difficulty concentrating, fidgeting, and the inability to clear his mind. He stresses that living with undiagnosed ADHD was exhausting, as he constantly had to overthink actions that come naturally to others.
Both Alicja and Janek reflect on whether an earlier diagnosis would have been beneficial. Janek believes it would have helped him understand himself better, while Alicja thinks it would have led to more understanding from teachers and enabled her to develop coping strategies earlier. Alicja recounts suppressing her hyperactivity, which led to mental exhaustion and the need to 'decompress' physically after school. Janek shares similar experiences, recalling how he would use bathroom breaks to walk around and release energy during class.
Rafał, a child and adolescent psychiatrist, reveals his own ADHD diagnosis came in adulthood, suggested by colleagues who observed his behavior. He initially resisted the idea, given his work with children with ADHD and his academic achievements. However, he gradually recognized his own struggles with procrastination, losing items, and forgetting appointments as symptoms. He emphasizes that the diagnosis helped him reframe his self-perception, moving away from self-criticism to understanding his functional differences.
Rafał outlines the diagnostic process for children with ADHD, which often begins with concerns from parents or teachers about behavioral issues like hyperactivity or inattention. He explains that diagnosis requires input from multiple environments (school, home, social settings) because ADHD symptoms manifest across various contexts. Rafał also highlights the evolving presentation of ADHD, with younger children exhibiting more overt hyperactivity, while adolescents might experience restless anxiety. He emphasizes the importance of objective observations from teachers and school psychologists to ensure an accurate diagnosis.
Rafał addresses the stigma associated with seeking psychiatric help, especially for children. He acknowledges that many people still view psychiatry negatively, but stresses the importance of normalizing mental health care as a form of overall well-being. He encourages a broader understanding of psychiatry's role, including addressing anxiety, sleep disorders, and stress, not just the most severe mental illnesses.
Alicja elaborates on her educational difficulties, particularly regarding managing hyperactivity covertly and struggling with increasing demands for independence. She found younger grades more supportive, but older grades brought challenges with self-organization and procrastination. The pandemic exacerbated her struggles with focus and motivation. Her most significant hurdle was consistent procrastination, particularly with essays, leading to late nights and psychological toll. She also discussed her perpetual lateness, despite efforts to be early, highlighting the underlying difficulties with time management.
Janek shares his unique coping strategies in school. While he could sit still, he often fidgeted, drew, or engaged with other materials during lessons. He explains that these actions, often misinterpreted by teachers as disrespect, actually helped him concentrate. He also used strategic bathroom breaks to move around and recharge. Janek notes that in higher education, where he chose subjects of interest, his focus improved, but he still sometimes manages other tasks during lectures.
Rafał stresses the critical need for adults to focus on the positive aspects of children with ADHD, as they are constantly bombarded with negative feedback and experiences of failure. He advocates for acknowledging and praising small achievements and strengths, helping children develop 'islands of competence' where they can excel and feel good about themselves. This approach nurtures self-esteem and counteracts the pervasive negativity they often face.
Alicja discusses the emotional rollercoaster of her diagnosis. The most accessible part was the strong family support and quick access to a specialist. However, the most challenging aspect was managing the emotions that followed: relief mixed with a sense of grief for what could have been and anxiety about lifelong struggles. She realized that ADHD wouldn't just disappear, leading to concerns about future functioning. Janek found the diagnostic process itself straightforward, as he was prepared for the outcome. Rafał admits the hardest part was accepting the diagnosis and letting go of negative self-perceptions, acknowledging how his past struggles were actually symptoms.
Alicja shares the motivation behind her Instagram and Facebook profiles, "Kobieta z ADHD," launched shortly after her diagnosis. She felt a need to educate others and advocate for better understanding of ADHD, especially in women, due to the lack of systemic knowledge and support. She collaborates with psychologists to create educational content and is actively involved with Atentio, an association for adults with ADHD. Their current efforts include advocating for the reimbursement of ADHD medications for adults, which are currently very expensive and inaccessible for many.
Rafał discusses the increasing prevalence of ADHD diagnoses in children, attributing it partly to evolving diagnostic criteria (from ICD10 to DSM5) that now encompass a wider range of presentations. He notes that 5-8% of children may have ADHD. Younger children with ADHD are often diagnosed earlier due to visible hyperactivity and impulsivity, while those with a predominance of inattention tend to be diagnosed later, sometimes only after developing secondary issues like depression. He also highlights the historical male-to-female diagnostic ratio, with girls often presenting as 'dreamy' and introverted, leading to delayed diagnoses.
Janek offers advice to educators, emphasizing two main points from a student's perspective. First, he cautions against self-blame if they miss signs of ADHD, as it's impossible to catch everything. Second, he advises teachers that a student's fidgeting or engaging in other activities within class does not necessarily mean they are not listening; for some with ADHD, these actions can aid concentration.
A panelist asks Alicja and Rafał about the potential link between vision impairment and ADHD. Alicja, who has a severe vision impairment, explains how it influenced her ADHD symptoms. While it didn't prevent her hyperactivity, it made her more cautious, ironically protecting her from serious injuries common among children with ADHD. She acknowledges that other health issues can certainly impact the presentation of ADHD symptoms, both magnifying and mitigating them.
A parent asks Rafał about the validity of re-evaluating an ADHD diagnosis, especially in girls who might mask symptoms, or when new difficulties arise. Rafał asserts that re-diagnosis is always appropriate, as ADHD is not just a disease but a fundamental way of functioning that can coexist with and influence other conditions like depression or personality disorders. He stresses that it's common for children to have multiple co-occurring diagnoses.