Summary
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Teasing is described as a form of 'mental domination'. The speaker suggests looking up resources on how to tease effectively, as it can make a woman feel outwitted and thus more attracted.
Bringing the conversation back to sex makes a woman feel a 'cauldron bubbling and boiling' inside, even if she tries to act cool. This direct approach stirs subconscious attractions.
Using pet names like 'baby', 'sweetheart', or 'darlin'' in a joking way can subtly project dominance. The humor makes it less offensive if the woman doesn't appreciate being called such names, but still conveys a dominant vibe.
Expressing raw emotions, such as anger when reacting to an email, is attractive because it shows the man is not afraid to unleash his feelings. This signals passion and a lack of fear.
Interrupting a conversation to compliment her appearance (e.g., her hair, eyes, skin, or dress) at an unexpected moment subtly brings the conversation back to sex and can make her feel 'objectified in a good way'.
Talking about typically masculine topics like sports, which the woman might not know much about, creates polarity and an 'old-school attraction vibe', contributing to the dominant image.
The speaker, Victoria, shares her past dating experiences where she would mentally categorize men into two groups: those she could potentially sleep with and those she couldn't. She realized this categorization was based on whether the man gave off 'dominant signals', which she initially perceived as confidence.