“NO quiero volver a COLOMBIA ❌🇨🇴” un marido NARCISISTA 🧠 Un padre BORRACHO 🍺Entrevistandre #414
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Diana, 46, recounts a childhood marked by an alcoholic father, which led to her being kicked out at 15. She describes sleeping on stairwells and experiencing psychological abuse, including being called derogatory names due to her lighter skin. Her father's alcoholism and family's dysfunction caused deep-seated issues and a lack of protection, leaving lasting emotional scars.
After leaving home, Diana's philosophy became 'I can do it alone.' She struggled, living in rented rooms and selling various goods in Bogotá to support herself. She gave birth to her first child at 21, and the relationship with his father ended due to his alcoholism. Diana recounts working tirelessly, selling goods and even singing on buses, to ensure her children had a better life.
Diana entered a relationship with the father of her second child, who initially seemed loving but turned out to be a narcissist. He emotionally abused her, leaving her pregnant and in debt. She describes being left homeless, paying 4,000 pesos a night at a motel, and eventually seeking help from her mother in Bolivia.
After returning to Colombia and trying to establish businesses without success, Diana suffered a traumatic experience, making her never want to return. She decided to leave the country again, traveling with her children through Peru, Mexico, Chile, and Argentina in search of a better life.
In Argentina, Diana established a phone repair business. However, a series of misfortunes, including being robbed by an employee and the COVID-19 pandemic, led to a deep depression. Her daughter, influenced by external sources and the prevalent feminist ideology, falsely accused Diana of abuse, leading to a four-year legal battle. Her daughter was placed in an orphanage, and Diana faced threats and lack of support from authorities and the Colombian consulate. Despite winning the case, she left Argentina due to ongoing threats.
Diana's journey continued to Sweden, where her asylum application was denied, and she and her son endured harsh living conditions and psychological pressure. Moving to Italy, she faced further challenges, including being defrauded by a 'gestora' and exploited in a hotel job. Despite these hardships, she found temporary work and is now seeking asylum in Italy, hoping to finally find stability and peace.
Diana currently resides in Calabria, Italy, with her son. She continues to support her daughter in Colombia, hoping to mend their relationship. Despite the ongoing challenges and an uncertain asylum process, Diana dreams of settling down in Italy, finding a peaceful life after years of struggle, and cherishing time with her children.