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Avoid using mobile devices at networking events or during dinner. Being on your phone signals a lack of presence and can be perceived as rude, hindering connection-building.
When introducing people, particularly in a professional or family setting, prioritize based on hierarchy. Introduce the higher-status person (e.g., CEO) to the lower-status person (e.g., colleague), but state the lower-status person's name first. In family, introduce the eldest first.
Always send a handwritten thank you note for gestures or gifts. This shows appreciation and that you took time to acknowledge their thoughtfulness.
Be honest and thank them for the invitation. Briefly explain your genuine reason for not being able to attend, keeping it concise and polite, and thank them again.
Always bring a gift for the host to show appreciation for the invitation. Remember, the gift is for the host, not for everyone to share. If you wish to bring something for all guests, ensure it's clearly for sharing.
Respect the host's request and do not bring a gift to the event. It is acceptable, however, to send a small thank-you gift afterward.
Never wear jeans to a formal event, regardless of how nice they are. Jeans are casual and should be reserved for informal occasions like running errands.
Wait in line, take a plate, and only take what you can eat. Avoid piling your plate high. You can always go back for more if you enjoy the food.
If you make a mistake, acknowledge it briefly (e.g., 'I'm so sorry') and discreetly try to fix it without making a large scene or dwelling on it. If needed, ask for assistance.
Announce your intention to make a toast, raise your glass, and make eye contact with the person you are toasting. Keep it short and sweet, perhaps by mentioning the past, present, and future in relation to the person. Finish with 'cheers' and a sip while maintaining eye contact.