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Aslan describes the experience of having an idea but being unable to articulate it, likening it to the constant struggle of individuals with speech impediments. He recounts growing up in Tabriz, Iran, exposed to three languages (Azari, Turkish, and Farsi). His family developed a hybrid language, and Aslan unconsciously gravitated towards shorter, easier-to-pronounce words due to an unapparent speech problem, which was often mistaken for a "baby talk phase."
Upon moving to America in 1996, Aslan encountered English, a language vastly different from those he knew. With only the TV speaking English in his household, he learned by observation but was embarrassed to speak. This led to a period where he communicated primarily through body language and charades, evident in a memorable preschool incident during reading time when he couldn't understand the teacher or her body language, leading to his playful distraction of combing a classmate's hair.
In elementary school, Aslan's speech difficulties became more obvious, leading him to speech therapy. He struggled with specific sounds and phrases, often resorting to his "best friend, the Thesaurus," to substitute difficult words with easier ones that conveyed the same meaning. He illustrates this with the tongue-twister "Sally sells seashells on the seashore," which he would modify to "Sally hustles seashells on the beach" to avoid the 's' sound.
Teased for his speech, Aslan found himself in a state of isolation where he discovered a passion for running. Running became his safe haven, an activity where he didn't have to speak and no one spoke to him. He subconsciously believed that winning a running prize in fifth grade would earn him respect and solve his problems, but he soon realized he was merely running away from his speech impediment.
In high school, a friend's advice to step out of his comfort zone prompted Aslan to confront his speech. Initially, his attempts to speak led to laughter, but he found motivation in the connection forged through shared laughter. This marked a turning point, where his weakness began to transform into a strength. He deliberately took a job selling pool supplies, then cars, areas that demanded constant communication. Despite not fitting the typical salesman stereotype, he became known for talking the most, actively embracing and capitalizing on what was once his biggest insecurity.
Through this process of confronting his flaws and continuously stepping out of his comfort zone, Aslan realized that his perceived weakness could be turned into a strength and eventually an asset. He transformed his speech impediment into a passion for talking, encouraging the audience to speak loudly, speak proudly, and to always get out of their comfort zones.