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Albert Camus believed that life is inherently absurd, meaningless, and pointless. He proposed two false solutions: suicide and religious belief, both of which he saw as escapes. The true solution, according to Camus, is to embrace the absurdity of life, like Sisyphus, who finds happiness in his repetitive task. We must accept life's absurdity and find value and happiness within it.
Viktor Frankl viewed life not as absurd, but as full of suffering. He believed that the way to overcome pain is by finding meaning in life, regardless of our circumstances. Our motivation to live stems from this will to meaning. Frankl outlined three ways to discover meaning: through purposeful deeds (doing something), through experiencing something or encountering someone (experiencing beauty or love), and through shaping our attitude towards unavoidable suffering, utilizing our freedom to choose our response.
Erich Fromm started by questioning if love is an art, implying it requires knowledge and effort. He identified three problems in human attitudes towards relationships: first, the focus on being loved rather than on one's capacity to love; second, the belief that love is simple and only finding the right object of love is difficult; and third, the confusion between the initial feeling of falling in love and the sustained state of being in love. Fromm argued that love is an art that needs to be mastered through understanding, effort, and developing one's ability to love beyond the initial infatuation.