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Chris Duffy shares his love for the unpredictable nature of working in elementary schools, where every day presented new and incredible moments. He illustrates this with an anecdote about a student labeling a shape as "Gabriella" instead of its geometric name.
He recounts another humorous incident where a fifth-grade student submitted an anonymous question card asking, "What are balls for." The humor is amplified by the student's use of a period instead of a question mark, despite extensive lessons on punctuation.
Duffy discusses his simultaneous role teaching adult improv comedy, where the goal was to help students let go of self-criticism and embrace their honest, creative thoughts. He contrasts this with elementary school children, who naturally express wild and unfiltered ideas.
He provides more examples of unexpected questions from children during silent work time, such as "Is it possible to make myself live longer so that I can see the Sun explode?" and "If your brother isn't married yet, why doesn't he just marry your mom?" He notes that while these ideas are creative, they aren't always good.
Duffy explains that fifth grade is often a peak for uninhibited creative thinking, but this doesn't have to be limited to childhood. He argues that the difference between people with and without a good sense of humor lies in their willingness to notice and accept their honest reactions rather than trying to fit them into a box, illustrating with the example of an improv student, Rick, who initially gave boring answers but later embraced more bizarre and interesting ones.
He suggests that by suspending self-judgment and noticing unusual things, we can be delightfully surprised. Comedians, he notes, keep notebooks of these observations. He encourages bringing a mischievous, fifth-grade energy to everyday situations to find laughter, even in dry places.
Duffy shares an extensive anecdote about applying this lesson to self-serious adult spaces, specifically LinkedIn. He jokingly made a profile claiming to be the CEO of LinkedIn, and surprisingly, the platform sent out emails congratulating him on his 'new job' and later his 'work anniversary'.
Eventually, LinkedIn's Trust and Security team, specifically a woman named Faith, contacted him about the inaccurate profile. After proving his name was Chris Duffy, he humorously responded to Faith's concern about his CEO claim by saying, "Faith, you are taking a pretty disrespectful tone for someone who works for me," leading to his permanent account deactivation.
Duffy concludes by revealing his current "occupation" as the founder and owner of TED, further emphasizing his playful approach to life and advocating for retaining that childlike sense of humor and inquiry.