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Prince Harry discusses his book "Spare," highlighting that its purpose is to provide context to his story, something the British press intentionally stripped away through leaks. He criticizes the media's focus on sensational headlines over factual representation, pointing out how this has been a consistent issue throughout his life and led to inaccurate portrayals, particularly regarding his military service claims.
Harry addresses the controversial claim that he 'boasted' about killing people in Afghanistan. He clarifies that the statement was taken out of context by the press. He explains his intention was to share his experience honestly to help other veterans and reduce military suicides, and that the press knowingly falsified the narrative, putting him and his loved ones at risk.
Harry emphasizes how his time in the military 'saved' him, providing a sense of purpose and refuge from media scrutiny. He believes the U.K. press is intentionally using his military service as a target to hurt him, knowing its deep significance to him. He details how he found community and evaded the media's focus during his ten years in the army.
Colbert asks why people are so fascinated with the Royal Family. Harry suggests the fascination intensified after his mother, Princess Diana. He explains that his and Meghan's departure from the Royal Family and move to California posed a threat to the institution's control. He believes there was an intent to either force Meghan out or break her spirit to control her.
Harry discusses the 'heir and spare' dynamic within the Royal Family, explaining how he came to understand his role as the 'spare' or 'distraction.' He admits falling into this trap during his teenage years while searching for his purpose, and how this dynamic shaped his experiences within the institution.
Harry speaks about the public's perception of his and William's relationship after their mother's death, noting the narrative that they were each other's solace. He reveals this was not entirely the case, and how the fracture in their relationship has deeply affected his wife. He reflects on how his mother's presence would have prevented the current distance between him and his brother, and he actively seeks her guidance.
Harry shares his early struggles with grief, including believing his mother was still alive and hiding. He connects his decision to remove himself from a toxic situation to her hypothetical actions. The conversation then humorously shifts to the 'frostnip' incident from his book, where he got frostbite on a sensitive area during a North Pole expedition, emphasizing the importance of context and vulnerability in sharing his story.
Harry fondly remembers Queen Elizabeth II, highlighting her sharp wit and sense of humor. He expresses gratitude that she, like his grandfather, finished her life peacefully. He shares a photo of his children, Archie and Lilibet (named in the Queen's honor), and discusses how they bring back memories of his mother. He also confirms watching 'The Crown,' admitting to fact-checking it, which he says underscores the importance of historical accuracy.