Make Her Work For It

Many men idealize women, placing them on pedestals and undervaluing themselves. This leads to women losing attraction and treating them poorly. To avoid this, men need to position themselves as above the woman, making her work for their attention.

The core strategy involves giving small commands to test a woman's willingness to invest and serve. Examples include asking her to grab something or get you a drink. Positive reactions indicate a feminine and submissive woman, while negative reactions are red flags.

A woman's willingness to serve depends on the man's value. Self-improvement in areas like physical appearance and red pill personality is crucial. Focusing on building an aesthetic physique and understanding female nature significantly increases attractiveness and influence.

Expecting a woman to serve puts her in her feminine energy, while the man assumes his masculine role. Suppressing these natural dynamics can lead to dissatisfaction and even infidelity. The goal is not selfish control but to create a happier, more fulfilling relationship where the woman feels like a valued queen.

The speaker shares his experience from University, where women willingly invested time and resources. Even with a less-than-perfect physique, adopting a red-pilled mindset and embracing a dominant, patriarchal leadership style made a significant difference in how women responded.

High-quality women expect men to have a patriarchal mindset. By giving commands, men can quickly polarize women. Those who react positively are likely to be feminine and worth pursuing. Conversely, negative reactions indicate potential headaches and incompatibility.

Men should seek women who obey and serve them because it creates the most fun and fulfilling relationship for a masculine man. If that triggers you, check yourself. Women in touch with their feminity will respond positively to this dynamic.

Holding frame means sticking to your beliefs in the face of criticism. Maintain your patriarchal mindset and do not compromise it to please others. Delusion and the good results from making her work for it will validate your perspective. Never change your mind just to please a woman, do what you want.