Narcissists Don't Get Away With It. Here's What Actually Happens When They Die | Suzanne Giesemann

Suzanne Giesemann discusses that upon crossing over, individuals who have caused pain are met with love, which is a shock to their system without the body's filters. In life, a nervous system can block emotions, preventing them from feeling the pain they inflict. Upon death, this filter is gone, leading to an 'aha' moment where they fully experience the love and the impact of their actions.

Suzanne explains that while actions can be evil in the physical world, the spirit itself is never evil. She likens the spirit to a 'direct emanation of pure being.' Evil is described as a state where the personality is far out of alignment with the soul's true essence. The afterlife involves a 'life review' where spirits fully feel the effects of their actions as if they were the victim, leading to understanding and a desire to make amends.

Suzanne addresses the case of Sylvia Browne, a psychic who falsely declared a kidnapped girl dead. She explains the limitations of psychic work in missing persons cases, highlighting the need for 'coherence' and 'resonance' between the medium and the spirit. Kidnapped individuals, enduring extreme trauma, are energetically incoherent, making accurate communication difficult. Suzanne emphasizes the 'do no harm' principle in her work, only sharing information she is absolutely sure of, validated by compelling evidence.

Suzanne recounts a case involving Kim Canton, whose son Jack went missing after a mudslide. Through communication with Jack's spirit, Suzanne received specific clues like a dead crow, rushing water over rocks, and an 'X' marked on a log. This led search teams to find bone fragments, confirming Jack's location after three years. This story demonstrates the potential for spirit communication to provide tangible, verifiable information in challenging situations.

Suzanne shares her personal technique for dealing with the overwhelming energy of modern life: 'returning to base.' This involves taking deep breaths and focusing on the 'pure base state' of being, shedding external 'overlays' of stories and patterns. She encourages asking questions like 'What do I need to learn from this?' to transform challenges into opportunities for growth and to connect with higher consciousness. She introduces her book, 'Always Connected,' which guides readers to connect with 'spirit' as opposed to technology like 'Siri.'

Suzanne offers comfort to those grieving, emphasizing that loved ones who have crossed over are 'fine and whole' and encourage growth. She states that 'prolonged suffering is optional,' distinguishing it from inevitable pain. She reaffirms that spirits always express being 'fine' after death, even those who caused harm, as they are surrounded by universal love. She also advises on compassionate interaction with those with dementia, suggesting soul-to-soul communication in meditation.

Addressing the 'gray zone' of numbness and overwhelm, Suzanne highlights that such feelings signal an inner knowing of a better way. She encourages self-compassion and surrendering to a higher power, emphasizing that tension blocks receiving help. She also shares personal experiences with physical pain, linking it to subconscious thoughts about safety and demonstrating how 'here open' can serve as a practical spiritual tool to return to a centered state. She concludes by stating that her greatest solace comes not from hope, but from a deep, abiding trust in the guidance of 'Joy' (her term for source energy), knowing that all is well.