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Traci grew up in Bunker Hill, Illinois, a small town. Her parents were young when she was born and divorced when she was two. Her mother struggled with addiction, leading to an unstable childhood for Traci, as they moved frequently and she was exposed to dangerous situations. Despite having both parents, Traci felt she didn't truly have them, and was often cared for by her grandparents and other relatives.
Between ages two and eight, Traci experienced the most difficult period of her life, feeling the need to protect her unstable mother. When Traci was eight, her mother was killed by a man who backed over her and left her for dead. Traci initially felt a sense of relief, hoping for a stable environment where she could just be a child. The man responsible received a lenient sentence, adding to the family's devastation.
After her mother's death, Traci was placed in a courtroom to choose who she wanted to live with. She chose her paternal grandparents, who provided a stable and loving home in the country. She maintained a close relationship with her half-sister, seeing her every other weekend at their maternal grandmother's house. Traci enjoyed a good childhood there, playing sports and having friends.
Despite a long-term relationship and engagement, Traci broke off her wedding a month before the ceremony to pursue a different life outside of Bunker Hill. She attended college, traveled, and engaged in drama and modeling. She later met her husband and had three children, creating a stable and happy life, fulfilling her desire for a strong family unit.
Two years prior to the interview, Traci discovered she had a half-sister through a DNA test, revealing her biological father had another child he refused to acknowledge. Even more shocking, she learned that the man who raised her as her paternal grandfather was not biologically related to her father. This discovery shed light on a dark family secret: her biological grandfather shot her grandmother when she was pregnant with Traci's father, realizing she was having an affair. The family covered it up to protect the family's image and provider.
Traci acknowledges the trauma of her past but emphasizes her resilience. She believes in not being a product of one's environment and the importance of cutting ties with negative influences. She credits her ability to thrive to the loving support of relatives during her childhood. Traci, who works in healthcare technology, attributes her drive and success to a desire to win and her inability to accept failure, ultimately building a fulfilling life for herself and her children.