Summary
Highlights
Don't try to impress the other Person. Understand that they are probably as nervous as you are. The less you try to impress, the better the conversation will flow.
Talk about things that you enjoy and make you excited. If you're having fun, you'll make the other person have fun too. It's important to talk excitedly about what you enjoy.
Initiate conversation by observing your surroundings or by making connections. Use anything around you to start a topic, Or continue another persons thought - even with different subjects.
Avoid questions that can be answered with a simple yes or no. Instead, ask questions that encourage the other person to share their thoughts and feelings.
Instead of asking questions directly, make assumptions based on your observations. This can open up the conversation in unexpected ways.
Don't be afraid of silences in the conversation. Often, the other person will try to fill the void, and your calmness will create a more relaxed atmosphere.