Summary
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The discussion begins by defining the 'performative male' as a trending archetype, immediately satirized. This male is described with floppy hair, oversized flared jeans, a tote bag, reading literary fiction, and drinking matcha – a 'softer' image reminiscent of an elevated hipster or soft boy.
The speakers link the performative male to a 'sneaky f***' mating strategy, suggesting their softer presentation is a poorly hidden tactic. This is compared to the phenomenon of male feminists who later faced 'Me Too' accusations, implying a similar disingenuousness behind the performative male's facade.
The performative male is identified primarily by an aesthetic, perhaps a rework of the 'sneaky f***' archetype. The conversation touches on whether this is an evolutionary adaptation, making men appear less threatening and more 'HR friendly' in a post-Me Too environment, particularly in knowledge-class professions.
The discussion delves into how some men have internalized societal critiques of traditional masculinity, leading them to avoid aggressive or overtly patriarchal styles. This is exemplified by an ecological economist who despite being a 'manly man' is furious about the patriarchy, even struggling with the ambivalent portrayal of female characters in Daphne du Maurier's novels who are both vulnerable to and 'turned on' by male violence.
The segment concludes with a speculative question about the impact of the 'Labubu male' and the lack of polarity on sexual activity, hinting that this new male archetype might contribute to less sex.
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