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Salsabilih recounts her unusual courtship with Aldi Taher, who approached her by asking for her father's phone number and saving it as 'father-in-law'. She highlights his dedication to his mother, including personal care, as a key factor that drew her to him, seeing it as a sign of his good character and potential as a husband.
Salsabilih expresses her initial struggles with public criticism and negative comments regarding Aldi's behavior, leading her to temporarily deactivate her social media. She admits to defending him fiercely at first but eventually learning to accept and grow from the experience, now embracing a more 'enjoy' attitude towards online negativity.
Aldi discusses his battle with cancer and how a deep dive into the Quran, which he considers a 'syifa' or cure, helped him overcome depression and find acceptance. Salsabilih shares her experience of supporting him through the tail end of his treatment, witnessing his resilience and faith despite the physical and emotional challenges.
Aldi explains his 'branding sinting' (crazy branding) concept, which includes random comments about his 'Aldis Burger Cempaka Putih' and 'Sombong Skincare' on social media. Joined by his branding team, he clarifies that his seemingly chaotic marketing is a deliberate strategy aimed at generating attention and promoting his businesses, emphasizing that everything he does is for Allah and not for public perception.
The couple shares their parenting approach, focusing on gentleness and understanding, especially for children under seven. They believe in leading by example, with their children reminding them to pray and read the Quran. They also emphasize complete financial and personal transparency in their marriage, including sharing phone passwords and bank accounts, fostering trust and openness.
Salsabilih reflects on the early days of their marriage during the COVID-19 pandemic, when financial struggles forced them to try various ventures, including a barbershop and a noodle stand. Despite the hardships, she expresses gratitude for Aldi's consistent efforts to make her happy and feels blessed to have such a unique and devoted partner, highlighting his 'physical touch' love language and steadfast loyalty.