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Submission isn't blind worship, but a natural response to a man who is protective, a good provider, smart, and capable of making sound decisions. It's comparable to respecting a great manager at work.
Men earn respect by demonstrating a willingness to walk away from disrespect and not tolerating bad behavior, regardless of physical appearance or attachment. Women should reduce attachment when a man's behavior is wrong.
When a woman can submit to a capable partner, she can relax, trust his decisions, and be her authentic self. This eliminates the need to maintain a facade if she chose correctly. Otherwise, maintaining an act will be exhausting in the long run.
The speaker discusses a trend online where women expect men to handle all travel-related stress. It's important for a man to be aware and not easily manipulated.
If a man is easily manipulated, the woman will perceive him as incapable of spotting threats in general and therefore, she can not trust their decisions. She is going to think he lacks the judgement of the smallest decision, all the way to which investment to bet on.