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Dave describes being in the worst shape of his life after COVID, physically and emotionally. Elena Cardone calls him to be a 'guinea pig' for her 'Kingmaker' program, noting his success but poor relationship choices.
The first step was deciding that a perfect woman for him exists on Earth, a concept Dave initially struggled to accept, taking three days to believe it.
Dave had to meticulously write down every quality of his ideal woman. He initially focused on physical attributes but was redirected to define her character and values, leading to a profound realization about his past approach to dating. He listed specific traits like being non-American, younger, and having her own ambitions.
This was the most challenging step: describing the man his ideal woman would desire. Dave realized his current self wouldn't attract her, prompting him to list qualities like being ethical, loyal, focused on building an empire, and even specific skills like dancing and speaking Spanish.
Dave committed to a two-year journey of self-improvement, stopping old habits and investing significantly in personal development, including dance and guitar lessons. This transformation led to increased energy, revenue, and a shift in his values, culminating in realizing his past mistakes in choosing partners based solely on appearance.
Within a week of completing his ideal woman list, Dave met Danny, who became his friend for two years. His transformation changed how she saw him. During a conversation, Danny outlined her ideal man, unknowingly describing all the qualities Dave had cultivated. Dave then revealed his list, showing her she was exactly what he was looking for, leading to their relationship.