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The sermon begins by emphasizing the importance of hearing Jesus, as it's a command frequently repeated in the Bible. It encourages listeners to set aside distractions and posture their hearts to listen to God, praying for ears to hear a 'sanctifying word' that will lead to wisdom and closer walk with God.
Building on a previous discussion, the pastor highlights the ongoing battle between the Spirit and the flesh within every Christian. He asserts that while identifying this struggle is important, the Bible offers a solution: walking by the Spirit. This involves acknowledging one's inability to obey God in their own strength and drawing daily from God's power. He then poses the question of why many, despite knowing this truth, find it difficult to consistently walk by the Spirit.
The central theme is introduced: a major hindrance to walking by the Spirit is associating with people who do not. The pastor explains that many believers unknowingly sacrifice their spiritual walk by maintaining close ties with those who walk in the flesh. He stresses that true spiritual growth is compromised when one is 'hand-in-hand' with ungodly influences.
The sermon provides biblical support for the importance of choosing wise companions, citing Proverbs 13:20, Proverbs 24:21, Psalms 119:63, and Psalms 101:6. These verses collectively emphasize that walking with the wise leads to wisdom, while companionship with fools brings harm. David's example of seeking faithful and blameless individuals to dwell and minister with him further reinforces this principle.
The pastor clarifies that 'walking with the wrong people' does not mean shunning non-believers or avoiding communication with them. Instead, it refers to consistently associating in fellowship with those who do not abide by biblical convictions. He explains that 'walking with' implies a shared destination, goals, and convictions, making it detrimental to align with those whose paths diverge from God's word.
Based on 2 Timothy 2:22, the pastor advises fleeing youthful passions and actively pursuing righteousness, faith, love, and peace. Crucially, he instructs listeners to pursue these virtues 'along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.' He elaborates on what pursuing each of these means and challenges listeners to evaluate whether their friends are also pursuing these divine qualities.
The first negative example is Judas Iscariot, who criticized Mary's act of total devotion to Jesus by anointing him with expensive perfume. Judas, though outwardly religious, was motivated by greed. This example illustrates how a friend with a critical attitude towards sincere worship can influence others, causing them to question genuine acts of surrender to God.
Rehoboam, Solomon's son, serves as the second example. When faced with a decision about easing the people's burdens, Rehoboam ignored the wise counsel of the elders and instead followed the foolish advice of his young friends. This decision led to the division of Israel, highlighting the danger of allowing unwise counsel to influence significant life choices.
The third example is Amnon, David's son, who was tormented by his lust for his half-sister, Tamar. His friend, Jonadab, a 'crafty man,' advised Amnon on how to fulfill his sinful desire. This illustrates how friends can either help fight temptation or fuel it, ultimately leading to destructive consequences and a crumbling of one's life.
The pastor challenges listeners to consider what kind of friends they have—those who help them fight sin or those who feed their temptations. He questions the value of friendships that will likely fade over time, urging prioritize the friendship of the Holy Spirit. He promises that choosing God's friendship above all others will lead to a profound experience of walking in the Spirit.
The sermon concludes with a powerful call to reflection and prayer, encouraging listeners to ask God to sanctify their friendships. He reassures that choosing God's path, even if it means walking away from certain relationships, will result in a hundredfold blessing in this life and the next. The final message is to be humble, compassionate, and wise in choosing companions, always putting God first.