She Has to Bring More to the Table Than Sex

For younger men, sex might be the primary focus in a relationship. However, Ron Wills argues that for men in their late 20s and older, a woman needs to offer more than just sex. She should support his mission and purpose, as many men get sidetracked by women who offer little else, leading to situations where men over-invest without receiving adequate return.

As a man ages, particularly past 25 and into his 30s, he should be focused on his mission and building something substantial. Any woman in his life should be in cooperation with his 'operation', meaning she actively supports and helps him achieve his goals, rather than just being a sexual partner. Sex is deemed a 'handshake' – easy to come by and not a significant contribution on its own.

The speaker acknowledges physical attractiveness but stresses that it's insufficient. He challenges the notion that 'just bringing myself' is enough, advocating for women to bring tangible contributions like helping with business ideas, providing connections, being socially adept in professional settings, or being a good mother if children are desired. Her presence should ideally help increase a man's (and ultimately their shared) financial well-being.

For men in their late twenties or older, a woman's value extends beyond sex to what she can contribute in terms of conversation, support, and practical help. He warns against men working tirelessly for women who offer little in return. Furthermore, men should strive to be in a position where they have options in partners and do not have to settle for someone who doesn't significantly contribute to their life's mission. The concept of 'submission' is redefined as a woman helping a man pursue his purpose.

Ron Wills concludes by reiterating that sex is easily obtainable, even suggesting that it can be 'bought' if necessary, implying its commonality and lack of unique value. He emphasizes that a woman's true worth in a relationship, especially for an older, mission-driven man, lies in her ability to help him accomplish his goals and support his purpose. This is the critical factor to consider when evaluating a partner.