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Many people talk about their New Year's resolutions but fail to achieve them, often due to seeking attention rather than genuine self-improvement. Sharing goals prematurely can mimic the dopamine rush of accomplishment, leading to a lack of follow-through. Most people try for a short period, typically one to two months, and then give up, seeing goals as too difficult or making external excuses for failure.
A significant distinction exists between 'trying' and 'doing'. 'Trying' often implies a lack of commitment and an escape from accountability for potential failure. To achieve goals, one must commit to 'doing' them, making an active and dedicated effort. This commitment fosters a mindset of inevitability rather than optionality.
Goals must be specific and measurable to be effectively pursued. Vague goals like 'get better at trading' or 'make more money' lack clear metrics for success. Specific goals, such as 'make $5K+ per month' or 'weigh 230 lbs by January 30th,' provide clear targets and allow for progress tracking. Attaching time limits can be beneficial, especially for goals primarily within one's control.
To achieve goals, one must identify the specific inputs or actions that make success almost inevitable. This involves working backward from the goal. For example, to make $10,000 a month from trading, inputs might include trading with a consistent capital amount per trade, taking a specific number of good setups daily, and strictly following risk management rules. Similarly, for fitness goals, this means precise calorie and protein intake and consistent workout routines. These inputs should be carefully thought out and relevant to the goal.
A powerful step towards achieving goals is to create a list of things to stop doing. Often, people are doing the 'right things' but are simultaneously held back by 'wrong things,' leading to stagnation. Eliminating negative habits or behaviors, such as breaking trading rules, procrastinating, making excuses, or giving in to emotions, can significantly accelerate progress by removing resistance.
Analyze your daily routine from the moment you wake up to the moment you sleep. Be consciously aware of every action and its impact on your goals. Identify actions that are not supporting your objectives, such as waking up late, excessive screen time, or late nights. Replace detrimental habits with positive inputs that align with your goals, easing into changes gradually rather than abruptly.
Behavior psychologically follows identity. To successfully implement new habits and achieve goals, you must realign your identity with the person you aspire to be. Instead of 'trying' to be better, declare 'I am' that new version of yourself (e.g., 'I am a profitable trader,' 'I am a consistent person'). This mental shift, known as 'be-do-have,' makes consistent actions more natural and sustainable.
Consistency is the cornerstone of achieving goals. People often overestimate what they can accomplish in a short period (e.g., one month) but underestimate the transformative power of consistent, focused energy over several months (e.g., three to six months). Directing concentrated effort into one to three key areas can lead to exponential growth and significant life changes.
The path to achieving goals involves setting specific and measurable goals, identifying inevitable inputs, auditing daily routines to eliminate negative habits, and realigning identity. This actionable framework, when consistently applied, can set individuals apart and foster immense success. The speaker encourages intentionality, acknowledging that while the process may not always be easy, it is not overly complicated. He concludes with a prayer for wisdom, discipline, and perseverance.