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The video introduces a tarot reading comparing how a future spouse views their ex versus how they will view you. The host warns that the reading might be triggering due to the comparative nature. Three piles are offered for selection: 'Divinely Connected Heart', 'Adventurous Heart', and 'Betrayed Heart'.
For Pile 1, the future spouse saw their ex as having a strong, bossy, and blunt masculine energy (King of Swords). Despite an initial soul bond (Two of Cups), the ex was seen as cold, calculative, and emotionally detached, making the future spouse feel like they had to walk on eggshells. The ex also displayed opportunistic 'healer' qualities, using their abilities for personal gain, and behaviors linked to addiction and entitlement to shared wealth. They were dedicated to family (Wolf spirit) but also dominating and judgmental, not liking to be controlled, which ultimately led to the relationship's end for the future spouse.
The future spouse will see you as someone who brings happiness and emotional fulfillment (Ten of Cups) but has been hurt in the past (Three of Swords, Five of Swords). You project a confident, attractive, and adventurous image (Knight of Wands, Six of Wands), causing initial uncertainty about your long-term commitment. You are seen as a 'Rebel' who challenges authority, follows your own beliefs, and avoids peer pressure (Fox spirit). Your independence might lead to social isolation and selective connections. You bring peace and tranquility to your future spouse, helping them heal from past relationships. While you are generally authentic, your future spouse may perceive a stubbornness or rigidity in your views (Dolphin spirit), urging you to embrace fluidity and consider broader perspectives. You are seen as a passionate, independent, and transformative individual who helps them release the past and enjoy the present.
Initial relevant letters for Pile 1 are M, K, L, H, F, O, A, Q, D, B, and numbers are 1, 3, 1, 6, 6. The 'Divinely Connected Heart' message encourages connecting to inner wisdom, meditating on higher worlds, and understanding karmic relationships for spiritual growth and wisdom.
For Pile 2, the future spouse saw their ex as strong but stubborn, arrogant, and sometimes forceful (Strength card). They were perceived as lazy (Four of Swords) but also consistent and committed (Knight of Pentacles), bringing a sense of certainty to the relationship. However, the ex was deeply insecure and sought external validation, leading to potential betrayal and manipulation. They were emotionally subdued (Stingray spirit), appearing quiet but capable of lashing out when feeling threatened. The ex also had a tendency to victimize themselves and lacked humor, which eventually bored and annoyed the future spouse. There's a possibility of a shared child or former family unit.
The future spouse will see you as an extremely attractive, charming, and passionate individual (Lovers, Queen of Wands). They will feel a strong soul bond with you, but your attractiveness might initially lead to doubts about your loyalty (Seven of Swords). You are ambitious, driven, and take charge (Chariot), moving at a fast pace and pursuing your goals with intensity. Unlike the ex, you are not lazy and embody a vibrant, active energy. You're a 'Liberator' (archetype), pushing for freedom in your mindset and encouraging your partner to be open to new experiences. You are seen as someone who doesn't like to be judged, reacting protectively if you feel unfairly scrutinized. You are highly creative and expressive in your talents and problem-solving skills. Your impatience and tendency to overdo things (Brown Bear spirit) might be recognized, suggesting a need for rest and a broader perspective. However, your generous spirit and openness to possibilities (Giraffe spirit) are admired, contrasting sharply with the ex's qualities. You are viewed as a 'Moth' spirit, transformative, expressive, and always seeking light and passion, making you an exciting and unpredictable partner who challenges routine, even in intimate moments. They will see you as lonely and longing for love when you meet, bringing an element of vulnerability amidst your strength.
Initial relevant letters for Pile 2 are W, O, A, D, K, M, and numbers are 1, 2, 2, 2, 5. The 'Adventurous Heart' message encourages embracing life's adventures, self-discovery, and intuition to guide your journey. It urges you to stop self-sabotaging and courageously plan a trip of a lifetime, possibly with your future spouse.
For Pile 3, the future spouse initially saw their ex as a source of happiness (The Sun), destined to be with them (Wheel of Fortune), and very nurturing (Queen of Cups). However, the relationship ended due to a significant betrayal (Ten of Swords). The ex was seen as intelligent, resourceful, and educated (Education, Resourcefulness) but struggled with addictions and reactive behaviors (Addictions). They were unpredictable and displayed a volatile, argumentative nature (Deer spirit), especially when under the influence of substances, sometimes even bullying the future spouse. The ex, initially perceived as nurturing and intuitive (Bat spirit), also possessed a dark side that led to the relationship's downfall, potentially through infidelity or misuse of shared resources.
The future spouse will see you as a soulmate and family (Six of Cups), very sweet, gentle, and emotionally deep (Page of Cups, King of Cups). They recognize your past experiences of neglect and abandonment (Five of Pentacles, Eight of Swords) but see that you have closed that chapter and are opening a new one. You are hardworking and ambitious (Eight of Pentacles, Chariot, Six of Wands) but sometimes prone to overthinking, getting stuck in your head, and feeling frozen by thoughts. Your future spouse admires your decisiveness in pursuing goals but notices this duality. You are seen as a fair and disciplined person (Justice, Discipline, Harmony), in contrast to their ex, and maintain an optimistic and hopeful outlook (Optimism, Archangel Phanuel). You are also perceived as having been lonely and longing for love when you met. They see you as a seductive 'Don Juan' (archetype), capable of drawing them into your romantic energy. You bring a spiritual, healing energy with strong emotions (Sea Serpent) and a sense of abundance and well-being ('There is always enough'). However, they might also perceive a need for you to be more mindful of your words ('Watch your words') and to work on inner beliefs about scarcity.
Initial relevant letters for Pile 3 are L, C, O, F, N, S, Z, P, J, and numbers are 1, 1, 2, 3, 5. The 'Betrayed Heart' message acknowledges your loving and giving nature, often leading you to trust implicitly despite warning signs. It highlights how betrayal has deeply affected you, urging you to decide whether to hide and protect yourself or to courageously risk opening up to new love and life, ultimately encouraging you to overcome fears of intimacy due to past hurts.