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The video opens by stating that a narcissist always returns, but you can change the outcome. Their return is not driven by love but by a need for control. Breaking this cycle allows you to win, as the narcissist will be the one to lose control. The speaker also promotes his new book, 'Come riconquistare l'ex, anche se è un'altra,' which offers important guidance on this topic.
A narcissist will always return, even after many years, because they consider you their property, an object. They return not for love, but to reassert control. They will reappear when you are doing well and starting to move on, triggering your memories and hopes that they might have changed.
The trap is believing the narcissist has changed when they haven't; they are merely reopening a door. Responding to them restarts the cycle, which initially seems perfect with attention and sweetness but eventually fades, causing more pain each time. To break free, you must not respond. Not out of anger or pride, but because you understand their manipulative game and are taking back control.
By not responding and taking away their control, you do something they cannot tolerate. This action allows you to finally close the chapter on seeking narcissistic relationships and begin attracting different, healthier people into your life. You will make more conscious and positive choices. It requires effort but is a worthwhile investment of energy.
The speaker concludes by encouraging viewers to subscribe to the channel, activate notifications, and leave a like. He reiterates the promotion of his book, 'Come riconquistare l'ex, anche se è un'altra,' which summarizes many videos on the topic and offers practical advice. He also mentions the option to become a channel member.