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The first step to achieving a top-tier goal is getting in shape. It's easier when you're young. Being in shape enhances your social circle and overall attractiveness. Address basic needs before attributing problems to deeper issues.
Being 'rich' is more about signaling the ability to gain resources than just possessing them. Ambition and the pursuit of goals are attractive qualities. Show early signs of potential and ambition to attract like-minded individuals.
Avoid behaviors that decrease the likelihood of someone wanting to associate with you. Align your behavior with the type of person you want to be with. Be upfront about your non-negotiables early in relationships to avoid future conflicts.
State your non-negotiables early to triage incompatible partners. Reduce the discrepancy between your 'acting' self and your true self for long-term relationship success. Determine what is unlikely to change about you over a long period and focus on these core values instead of surface level preferences when looking for a relationship.
Focus on what won't change about you over time rather than temporary passions when seeking a mate. Identify core behaviors and foundations that are unlikely to change. Reduce your list of essential qualities to a few big rocks instead of numerous small preferences.
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